SOBER LIVING: Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions: “FAQs”
Living in a sober home can be a significant step in the recovery process for individuals struggling with substance abuse. Here are some frequently asked questions about living in a sober home:
Q: Who can live in a Sober House?
A: Men 18 or older.
Q: Why should I choose All Roads Recovery?
A: Our team commits to complete sobriety, drug and alcohol-free homes, sobriety fellowship, straightforward, proven paths to long-term recovery specialized to each guest, and a compassionate and empathetic leadership team. We walk our talk daily.
Q: What are your qualifications?
A: Our founder/owner has over 20 years of personal recovery, and our house leadership teams have completed many years of personal sobriety. All Roads Recovery leadership teams participate in drug and alcohol sobriety training. We are committed to learning the most up-to-date systems and processes regarding the path to long-term sobriety. All Roads Recovery leadership teams have completed MASH Certification Classes.
Q: Do Sober Houses work?
A: Sober homes are where you get your footing personally, professionally, spiritually, and financially. You will participate in a supportive environment while learning about yourself and your addiction. While participating with others, you will begin to understand that you are not alone and that there is a clear Road to Recovery. You will progress at your own pace; it is your recovery. The fellowship provided will allow for expediential learning through experiences. As with everything in life, your successful outcome will be directly related to your commitment and participation in yourself and your sobriety. Please don’t say it isn’t for me or it doesn’t work until you’ve committed and completed your entire Recovery Program. Everything is possible when you apply yourself.
Q: Are the Sober Houses certified?
A: All Roads Recovery Houses are MASH Certified annually.
Q: Will my Personal Health Records be safe and private?
A: Your records are stored in your One Step Recovery App; your records are visible to your house manager and the All Roads Recovery Group leadership team. We also provide information to all mandated court personnel.
Q: Who will I report to at the house?
A: Each house has two assigned house managers.
Q: What are the rules of the Sober House?
A: The house’s rules and policies are outlined in your One Step App, which you can access anytime through your login.
Q: What is expected of Sober House guests?
A: The expectations are outlined in the One Step App.
Q: What transportation is available?
A: All Roads Recovery does not provide transportation. Still, men living in the house with transportation are willing to share rides back and forth to meetings, grocery shopping, and medical visits. All our houses are within a short walking distance of public transportation.
Q: What is the difference between sober living homes and halfway houses?
A: Sober living homes and halfway houses both support individuals recovering from addiction but differ in focus, management, and resident expectations.
Halfway Houses: Targeted towards individuals mandated by courts, often post-incarceration, these state-run facilities emphasize reintegration into society with structured support like job training and mental health services. Residents must follow strict rules, including abstinence and participation in rehabilitative programs.
Sober Living Homes: Typically privately run, these homes cater to individuals voluntarily seeking a supportive environment post-inpatient treatment. They offer more privacy and less structure, focusing on practicing recovery skills and peer support. Rules include maintaining sobriety and contributing to the household.
In summary, halfway houses are more structured and geared towards legal compliance, while sober living homes provide a supportive community for voluntary residents focusing on long-term recovery skills.
Q: How long does the application and acceptance process take?
A: The process typically takes two days. There may be exceptions based on specific needs.
Q: What are the costs of living in a Sober Home?
A: Pricing varies by each All Roads Recovery house:
3 Smiths Lane, Kingston $250 Weekly – Due on Friday
4 Nook Road, Plymouth $225 Weekly – Due on Friday
230 Summer St Plymouth $225 Weekly – Due on Friday
Q: What payment types do you accept?
A: Cash, Venmo, Grants, Scholarships.
Q: What about financial assistance?
A: All forms of financial assistance are welcome. Our sister company, All Roads Giving, may be able to assist you with financial aid.
Q: What is expected of guests?
A: All guests’ expectations are outlined in the One Step app.
Q: How long can I stay in a sober living house?
A: Every stay is determined by the individual guest. The individual determines the time needed.
Q: Can I receive treatment at the Sober House?
A: Guest treatment can be received by licensed practitioners prescheduled with the house manager.
Q: What would prevent acceptance to a sober home?
A: We do not accept convicted arsonists, convicted pedophiles, or assault & battery with a deadly weapon.
Q: Is drug testing required?
A: Yes, random drug testing is standard within our homes, occurring 2–3 times weekly and mandatory to stay at the house.
Q: What happens upon a failed drug test?
A: If a guest fails a drug test, a 2nd test is immediately conducted on the same urine sample. If the 2nd test fails, a 3rd test from a new urine sample will be tested; if the 3rd test fails, the guest has the opportunity to go to the hospital and have a blood test administered, and after verified results are returned, we will make our determination of the action.
Q: Do the houses have security systems or cameras?
A: Yes, cameras are on the exteriors of our homes and within the common areas of the houses.
Q: What types of support services are available?
A: We offer in-house fellowship, a weekly house meeting, Bible classes at some of our homes, and direct access to the Plymouth Recovery Center. We provide a complete list of local meeting spaces in and around Plymouth and other meeting locations throughout the state.
Q: Are residents required to attend 12-step meetings?
A: Meetings are mandatory weekly; participation will propel you on your path.
Q: What happens if a resident relapses?
A: We will support you in getting back into detox, provide recovery services, and give you the opportunity to return to the house. All rents must be up to date. For us to hold your bed, we will need your rent paid while you are in a detox facility. If you choose to leave at that time or decide you will not return after detox, you will have seven days to remove your personal belongings from the house.
Q: I can’t log in to the One Step mobile app.
A: Speak with a manager. They or the leadership team will contact you and walk you through logging back into the One Step App.
Q: What is the visitor policy?
A: We allow visitors to common areas only with prior manager approval until 6 pm. Visitors are not permitted after 6 pm.
Q: Can I bring my pet?
A: No pets are allowed in the houses or on the property.
Q: Do you offer Wi-Fi?
A: Yes.
Q: Are the houses equipped with fire alarms?
A: Yes, hard-wired with battery backup smoke and carbon monoxide detectors are in all our houses.
Q: What is the parking policy?
A: The parking policy is outlined in the One Step mobile app.
Q: What additional costs may be required?
A: During July, August, and September, each house guest is charged an additional $50 for air conditioners in each bedroom and living room.
Q: What happens if problems arise with the house or another guest?
A: Rules violations should be worked out between the guests; if a resolution is not established, the guest should bring this to the attention of the house managers.
Q: What is the policy on smoking and vaping?
A: No smoking or vaping of any products inside our homes.
Q: What should I bring with me to the Sober House?
A: With limited storage, you should only bring what is needed to wear for up to two weeks, perishable food for up to three days, and pantry food for up to two weeks. Personal hygiene products, soap, toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, shampoo, and laundry detergent.
Q: Is there anything prohibited from bringing to the Sober House?
A: Women, drugs, alcohol, or weapons of any kind. No TVs, electric musical instruments, drums, or anything that may disrupt other guests in the house. Laptops and tablets are allowed.
Q: Are there employment and educational opportunities?
A: We are a working house. Working 20 hours per week is mandatory to stay in the house. We provide information for get-well jobs and educational opportunities within the community.
Q: What is your discrimination policy?
A: We follow the federal and state guidelines regarding discrimination.
Q: What are your LGBTQ policies?
A: We do not discriminate; we utilize the federal and state guidelines regarding discrimination.
Q: What are the work requirements?
A: We are a working house; all guests must work or volunteer at least 20 hours per week and are expected to be out of the house between 10 a.m. and 3 p.m.
Q: What if I am disabled?
A: We do not have handicapped access to our homes.